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Page 1 of 2 Psychic Tips for Love, June 1, 2011
I was married for over 20 years to a dominating, self-destructive alcoholic, because I couldn't get the courage to leave him earlier. After we divorced, my next relationship was possessive, jealous, egotistic, and also an alcoholic. Both men borrowed money from me and never paid me back, even though they said they would. Why am I magnet for immoral, dishonest men who like to exploit women? I thought relocating to another state would help me let go of the past, but after a few years, I questioned I was being stubborn about staying alone, while my family keeps pressuring me to return to California, where the money would be better. How can I stop attracting abusive men? Bewildered.
Dear Bewildered, Happiness Is a Serious Problem by Dennis Prager. "Happiness is an obligation to yourself and others. Our happiness has an effect on the lives of everyone around us - it provides them with a positive environment in which to thrive and be happy themselves." You are coming closer to the mystery of why you've had so many relationship problems in this lifetime. You draw troubled men because you have been unhappy. Intuitively I feel you are in the midst of reconstructing your life. You are building a firm foundation within your mind and body, so the wrong man cannot alter your will any more. During the next twelve months, you will open yourself to a better, more caring and loving soul mate. Until then, don't give your heart away. This cycle will provide enlarged insight into what you are and where you will grow. Human resources, teaching, and communicating skills are your best assets. Use them well. It has been my pleasure to read for you. Blessings and love, Ruth Berger
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